Ladies here is a list of 10 things i think we say 'We off that' to!

As 'grown' girls, we have the choice of deciding to change at any moment and no.. it doesn't have to be at the beginning of the year! This list includes bad trends,bad habits, bad relationships etc i think we should 'pack in a box' and throw away. Enjoy!

1.Keeping a 'frenemie'- We all have a friend who in real life, we can't stand. We talk about her to our genuine friends. We just don't get along, hate hanging out with her. Its not a healthy friendship, fix it or let it go.

2. Staying in a 'dead-end' relationship- We should be all about growth, moving forward, as my mandinkas put it, 'niato dorong'. Staying in a relationship that is stagnant is a no no ladies. Again, fix it or let it go.

3. Being afraid to go 'natural'- Leaving the house wearing no make-up and having no weave on is not as scary as it may sound ladies. Lol, i must admit i was like this but not anymore. Its actually quite refreshing girls. Just stop over-thinking it and just do it!

4. Sub-facebooking- I call it the 'sub-facebooking', you know like when u feeling some type of way about someone and u start updating ur status with cryptic messages aimed at that person? yea...we all done it! It does help make u feel better but does it actually resolve the situation? No. 4get facebook, do it face 2 face. :)

5. Multi-coloured nails- Im a culprit! lol...its fun, i love applying different colour polish on each nail but its sorta childish or im i the only one thinkin that??

6. The 'text and no call'. If ur guy is the type that only sends one liner, non-stop texts but doesn't call, 'straighten' that boy up immediately! I, personally, HATE texting! Like seriously. I don't care if it makes me look 'old skool' but prefer hearing that sexy voice than seeing 'new message from papi'. :)

7. Holding back compliments- Ladies y'all know wat im talking about. U see a sister with flawless makeup, wearing a killer outfit with the sickest shoes ever and all u do is look her up and down, saying the compliments in ur head! lol.. It doesn't take much to give props to another person. Try it.

8. Gossip- Its a nasty habit and one that is difficult to stop. Sheeeeeeeeettt, girl and gossip have been synonyms since..well..forever! Its about time we change that huh?

9. Drinking alcohol- I said it before and i'll keep saying it. Ladies, we know our priorities (atleast i hope we do) and trying to 'be cool' by getting drunk like a skunk then acting a fool shouldn't be one of them. Put the bottle down already.


10. Accepting to be the 'other girl'- Amen to this one! Girl, u know he has a girlfriend, he doesn't even try to hide that fact from u and u still accepting to be his 'jumpoff'' or 'chic on the side' or 'chickenhead' or wateva name guys be using these days. He only texts or calls u when he wants to 'hit it' as they put it. Forget the douche bag already and get urself a real man.

Ladies, any other things we should 'we off that' u have in mind?? Comment below pls!