Are You A Man Addict?

Happy new year lovers! How was your 2011? I gotta say this past year has been a formative one for me Alhamdullilah. It is one i can honestly say i have grown the most & has helped me see many aspects of my life from a different perspective. One of these 'aspects' is of course is my love life :) thus the heading "are you a man addict?". Because i'm totally not.

I know you are going "Ooookay...." but hear me out. When you've been single for a couple of months, do you panic and say 'oh my God, i'm gonna be alone forever!!" No? Yes? Ok..i've come up with 6 signs that'll help you know if you are an addict or not. Here goes..

1. This sign is obvious. You become heartbroken very fast:  Do you feel devastated when a guy breaks things off after only a few weeks or dates? This only happens when you pin your hopes on him, heartbreak & hope walk hand in hand & if You are a man addict, you let these hopes & expectations get carried away quickly.

2. You change who you are ALOT!: You know the type of girl who would suddenly become a football fanatic because her current love interest is a football player or is into sports? This same girl will throw away all her low cut jeans and tight dresses if her man is the clean cut type or becomes a club rat if her man is a partier. Giving up your identity just to be with someone is a lot to give up.

3. You are always attached.  Never single?? Again, this one is obvious but to some its not. The "i just met someone awesome after my breakup' is a no no. If you are not an addict you'll give yourself time to wallow and digest your feelings after a breakup.

4. Confidence level depends on your love life: Low functioning at work, downer to friends and family when you don't have a man by your side, But when you do, whoaa baby you become miss thing, life of the party and all that. Its fragile because it can all be taken away by a breakup.

5. You have no boundaries. You'll date just anyone, your boss, your bestfriend's ex etc. True, at some point we are all attracted to someone we shouldn't be but only an addict goes for it. End of.

6. Your screws go loose: You text, call, email him telling him just how much you miss him then the next just how much of an asshole you think he is then you change your mind and say you didn't mean it. You want him back then you don't. You are constantly checking his facebook profile, his twitter etc basically yeah..you lose your sanity.

Ehemm...so what's your conclusion? Are you a man addict? As for me..well....

xx